Thank you all who have come to celebrate with me on this moment in my life here in WA. I really appreciate you all for sharing your time with me.
About 12 years ago, I have had conceptualized in
migrating, initially in the US as my sister is living there. She offered me a
job there, but my ex-wife wanted to come to Australia as most of her relatives
are already here but unfortunately, she couldn't come here on her own as a
skilled migrant, err even as a tourist or on student visa.
As a product of a broken home, I have always
dreamed of having my own family. Never have I imagine that she will just use me
for "visa purposes". She treated me as a king when our visa was still
in process but once our visa was approved, I am irrelevant already.
Contrary to her claim that we lost our baby because
I was abusive and she's a battered wife; Never, as in never I have had lay a
finger on her. She was advised by her OB to a total bed rest due to the
condition of our baby and considering that our target initial entry to Australia
was August 2014, she would have been 7 months pregnant then and most likely
won't be allowed to fly hence I believe it was intentional on her part to
ignore her OB.
After her miscarriage, I believed that all our
finances were in order as I budgeted everything after my resignation from the
middle east, wedding, visa, her annulment and his son’s tuition fee. She was
asking 30k pesos from me to pay her son’s tuition fee which obviously surprised
to learn of the delinquent payment. I told her to get the payment from our
“savings” (actually my savings) going to Australia. To which she relayed were
all gone. She threatened me that she would revert back to prostitution to get
that money.
Eventually she got a fling from Guam which she got
the payment for his son’s tuition.
What really infuriated me was the fact that I found
out that they have a plan to ditch me once we settled in Australia. The two of
them will meet here in Australia and she will file a divorce immediately. I
confronted her of course and told me she was just telling it to the guy in
order to collect payment for his son’s tuition fee.
When I am having a problem in looking for a
relative or caregiver to take care of my sickly Father (dialysis), my ex-wife
told me just to ditch my father and proceed to Australia right away. Never
thought that I’d be sleeping with the devil. Once our visa were approved and my
ex-wife were in quandary if we will still proceed with our migration to
Australia, my ex-wife told me to “fix” my issue first with my Father before
having a relationship with her. Please take note that when her father died, I
am financially responsible for the burial; it was supposed to be paid back to
me but that’s another fraudulent scheme by my lovely ex-wife.
Every migrants dream is having their own small
piece of land they can call their own, that was my dream even before landing
here in Oz. Managed to save some money from my stint from the middle east but
portion of it was kept by my ex-wife, about 2M pesos and most of it, according
to her was gone already as according to her, she have had a serious illness and
was recuperating and didn't even bothered to inform me whilst I was in the
middle east as this may cause anxiety on me.
It took 8 years and so to accomplish part of my
dream of owning a home here in Australia, long 8 years to endure all the
sufferings and bitterness brought about that gold digger. Bittersweet but
loving it.
Again, thank you for sharing a moment with me. You
have really been a part of my progress and success here in Australia.
